I know we seem mysterious and confusing, but we are actually pretty simple. We love you and want to feel close to you. If you would do a few simple things, our relationships could grow more than you would believe.
1) Look at us when we talk to you. Yes, this means you need to put down your phone. It gets frustrating when we are asking for your help or giving you needed information and we have no idea if you are listening. Just look at us, so we know you hear us.
2) We crave your touch. Show us you want to feel us near you. Hold our hand. Touch our back. Sit close to us.
3) Have a conversation with us. You may not need to say anything, but that's how we feel connected. Talk to us. Ask us questions. Learn about us. When we are in the car together, talk to us. We want to know you, too.
4) Be our cheerleader. Encourage us to try new things. Teach us about things you love. Let us excel and brag about us to your friends.
5) Bring peace. Do something to bring peace into our relationship. Pray with us. Meditate together. Let's take a walk together.
But most of all, please do these things for us. Take the lead. We are waiting for you to reach out to us.
We love you. Love,
Your Ladies
